Frequently Asked Questions
What can I expect at a Transmission Retreat?
Transmission retreats are a great opportunity to step away from the day-to-day stress many of us face as trans masculine folks. We provide a container where you can let down your guard, learn, laugh, and connect with other trans masculine people in a gorgeous private setting.
Past retreats have included talent shows, BIPOC talking circles, self-exploration exercises, and pool parties, but we also leave space for retreat goers to create their own programming or just sit back and take it all in. View a sample program from a past retreat.
Transmission retreats typically happen in Lake County, California. There are both cabins and camping options, a dining hall, a main lodge, showers, a pool, and a hot tub!
When we host a retreat, we rent the entire facility so there is no concern of encountering other guests. Cisgender facility managers will be on-site, but they are well known to us, supportive, and respectful of retreat goers' privacy.
Regarding clothing, throughout the retreat tops, regardless of chest appearance or surgical history, are always optional. We ask that people always wear bottoms in communal areas, however there will be designated times and places where bottoms are also optional — it’s up to you if you want to be in those spaces. We have found this practice to be a uniquely powerful way to combat dysphoria and foster joy. However, in this, as in everything else at Transmission, we trust people to choose their own adventure.
Transmission Retreats are sober events, though there will be a designated smoking area for medical marijuana. There is also a separate smoking area for nicotine.
Are you committed to nurturing BIPOC spaces at Transmission?
In 2018, a BIPOC-majority team took over the leadership of Transmission and instituted several practices that helped improve the experiences of BIPOC attendees:
There will be BIPOC-only pool times and workshops.
Transmission retreats aspire to at least 50% self-identified BIPOC attendees, and in 2024 60% of attendees were BIPOC.
White attendees are asked to describe their understanding of racism within and beyond the trans community when registering, are vetted based on their responses, and are asked to attend an anti-racist workshop during the retreat.
All attendees agree to anti-racist community guidelines and agree to speak with leadership if they cause harm, even inadvertently, to another attendee. Depending on the severity of the offense, they may be asked to not return.
Transmission will not happen without BIPOC voices in leadership. If you're interested in volunteering with us, please let us know. The leadership team is committed to continuing to have at least 50% BIPOC representation on the team.
We acknowledge that there may still be harm done. The leadership team asks that if you experience harm, you let someone know in whatever way feels safest to you, and we will do our best to minimize further harm. If you cause harm, remember impact is different than intent. Apologize without explaining yourself and allow the person space to heal if needed.
Read the article Intent versus Impact: A formula for better communication from BetterUp.
Further Questions? Contact Us.
How ADA-accessible is the retreat?
The Community Lodge and Dining Hall are close together and have entrances at ground level. The bathroom in the Dining Hall is not accessible, but those in the Community Lodge are. The pathways are unpaved gravel that is well maintained, without potholes, and are either flat or with a slight overall incline. There is one cabin with a ramp that may be accessible for some with limited mobility. There are also individual cabins without ramps. There is air conditioning in the main buildings and some of the lodging. There is a hot tub and pool, however access may be difficult for some due to narrow gates and uneven ground. At the pool area there are bathrooms accessible at ground level, but they are not fully ADA.
If you have any questions about accommodations or have specific access needs, please contact us.
What should I bring?
Generally speaking, you’ll want to bring bedding (pillow and sleeping bag or blankets), ear plugs (if you’re a light sleeper), a flashlight, warm layers for nights and mornings, comfortable shoes, swimsuit, towel, sunscreen, and hat, toiletries (low/no-scent preferred), alarm clock, and medicine. Feel free to bring a journal, art supplies, sports gear (soccer ball, baseball, glove, etc.), a refillable water bottle, and hiking poles (there are some nice trails on site). People in the past have brought instruments and had a great time making music.
Leave computers and electronics at home, and stash your cell phone out of sight and out of mind for the weekend. DO NOT BRING recreational drugs, alcohol, weapons, and pets/comfort animals. NOTE: Service animals (as defined by the ADA) are welcome but please check with us first before bringing your service animal.
What about food?
Meals are included with the cost of registration and are served buffet style. Although our chef does a fantastic job of creating a delicious and healthy menu, we may not be able to accommodate all dietary restrictions. Vegetarian and vegan options will be available at all meals for those who request it. We will update this section for more information about food storage options if you choose to bring your own, but in the meantime, please email us with any questions.
What are your Covid-19 precautions?
Members of both our community and our leadership team are immuno-compromised. We will therefore be relying on each other to keep us all safe. Please take extra precautions during the week leading up to the retreat and mask in crowded indoor spaces and while traveling.
Attendees will be required to test within five days of the retreat either by PCR or with an at-home antigen COVID-19 test and have a negative result.
Attendees will also be required to bring an at-home test with them and have a negative test result at registration. If you carpooled and anyone in your carpool tests positive, you will, unfortunately, be asked to leave even if you test negative as you have been recently exposed. You are encouraged to test before carpooling and can take a time-stamped picture of that negative test instead of testing at arrival.
Full group gatherings will be indoors and will require a mask. There will be opt-in workshops where participants may unmask at times indoors due to the nature of the workshop.
Facilitators at full group gatherings may not be wearing a mask while actively facilitating, but any unmasked facilitators will undergo additional testing.
Masking at the buffet line will be especially strict to prevent food contamination.
Masks and hand sanitizer will be readily available throughout the facility.
Group cabins will be mask-optional spaces. A limited number of individual cabins are available for those who need them due to health reasons. Please specify if this is the case during registration.
Due to issues of systemic racism and medical mistrust within our community vaccines are not required, but they are highly encouraged. If you have questions or concerns about the vaccine and would like to talk to a medical professional, please feel free to contact us and we'll be happy to arrange a meeting with Felix who is a Registered Nurse. He will be non-judgmental, whatever you decide, and answer any questions you have with unbiased scientific information.
Please contact us if you have additional Covid-protocol questions or concerns and we would be happy to have a dialogue to see if we can make it safe enough for you to join us at Transmission.
Is Transmission really a sober event or are you just saying that for legal purposes?
Transmission really is a sober event and it's very important that you help us keep it that way.
Unfortunately, trans folks disproportionately struggle with substance use disorders and many in our community are sober or in a tentative recovery. To ensure that everyone feels safe, comfortable, and present, the retreat is drug-free and alcohol-free.
Smoking/vaping will be permitted in designated areas only. Marijuana is also permitted in designated smoking spaces but only as needed for health. We won't ask anyone to justify their medical reason for using marijuana, but please follow the honor system and do not offer it to others recreationally.
Do I belong at Transmission?
This is a largely personal question that only you can answer. Transmission is currently for those of us who are AFAB or intersex who are connected to or exploring gender outside of the one we were assigned at birth. That includes trans men, trans masculine people, nonbinary, genderqueer, gender non-conforming, and questioning individuals.
Transmission began as a retreat primarily for binary trans men, but our community has expanded to recognize that gender is a spectrum. We have considered opening the community to trans women as well, however, there are other retreats that are fully trans-inclusive and we would like to hold space for the often-overlooked trans masculinity. As for gender expression, some community members prefer baseball caps and dad shorts. Some prefer glitter and skirts. All gender expression is welcome and encouraged. Please come and be yourself without worrying about the pressure to act or be a certain way.
You don't need to know if you're trans to come. In fact, if you're questioning and discover that you're cis by coming to the retreat, that's a successful exploration of the self and to be celebrated! Your journey exploring your gender needs to be free of others' expectations.
Transmission retreats are not for cis allies, though we do occasionally have informal gatherings where friends and family and welcome!
What is a Community Circle?
A community circle is an opportunity to sit together with the intention of becoming more present, heart-directed, and connected. Participants are invited (but not required) to reveal their joys, fears, pain, or hopes in a confidential environment while the circle listens supportively without intervening. Experiencing a community circle is both deeply personal and profoundly collective.